How to break the ice on an online dating site
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Asking questions with a yes or no answer will just stall the conversation.
Initial exchanges also benefit from quick response times (which, perhaps surprisingly, weren’t found to be a turn-off), humorous comments, and exchanges of light-hearted personal information, such as silly allergies or whether or not you are an only child.
An earlier switch to face-to-face communication is associated with better outcomes.
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It can be hard to know what to say to make sure that you stand out from the horde of their other matches.
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It’s important to keep the tone of your first conversation fun, as the way that you present yourself here is how your match will anticipate future exchanges. points out that a 2014 study from OKCupid’s co-founder Christian Rudder found that the best messages with the highest response rates were only 40-60 characters long, and took less than a minute to form.
And hey — if you mess up your first few attempts at composing a flawless icebreaker, there are always many, many, more fish in the Tinder sea.